It's one thing to book a flight, but it's a totally different thing to actually get on the bloody thing.
What on earth have I got myself in for? was all I could think; I
had thought about going to America for a while, but a little common sense and quite a lot of fear had prevented me from seriously contemplating it and actually getting organised. Unfortunately that didn't seem so much of a factor after half a dozen pints one night, and as the haze cleared the next day, it became harder and harder to convince myself that I hadn't actually booked a flight, hotel and hire car. I would've been impressed with how organised and thorough I had been after all that beer if I wasn't concerned that I was now in a massive amount of trouble.
To make things easier, rather than spending the day before my flight sorting out my luggage and all the last minute details, I sat in the pub with my friend Ciaran for over 7 hours instead. Stupid perhaps, but it actually did make things easier; instead of being terrified about spending nearly a month alone in a country half way around the world and worrying about all the things I could have forgotten to pack, I was tired and grumpy instead and was more interested in just getting the airport palaver and flight over with rather than dwelling on what was to come. How on earth I ever manage to enjoy myself, I don't know.
Getting into the city from JFK airport wasn't all that hard and finding my hotel was pretty easy as well as it was just off Times Square, a place so loud and busy and blindingly-bright that you can probably see it from space. It was late in the afternoon by the time I got there and I was far too dazed after the 8 hour flight to consider doing any sight seeing, but I got to meet up with my lovely friend Caroline who was working in New York that week for a burger. By which I mean we met for a burger, not that she was being paid in burger. Although it
was a pretty nice burger. We sat outside Shake Shack in Madison Square Park while we ate, watching the sunlight thicken and glow on the buildings opposite as the sun began to set and the evening rolled in. I was absolutely knackered after a pretty bad night's sleep, an early morning and a plane journey, so unfortunately my contribution to the conversation wasn't particularly scintillating, but it was nice to see a familiar face all the same. Knowing before I left England that I was going to meet up with her made a huge difference, as I knew it was going to help ease me into the trip rather than dump me right in the deep end alone and made the entire prospect far less daunting. Thanks Caroline, you're a champ.
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Times Square |
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Big building |
I realised pretty soon, after we went our separate ways, that I would have had nothing to worry about even if I hadn't got to meet up with Caroline; New York is nowhere near as vastly imposing and terrifying as I had expected and, although I won't go as far as to say I felt like I belonged, there wasn't one moment when I felt like I didn't belong. After a life saturated with American culture, every part of New York felt familiar to me and the friendliness I experienced made me feel more comfortable there than in any other city I've visited for a first time. And the street grid system makes it almost impossible to get lost, which is a good thing if you're trying to not look like a tourist.
I was struggling with the jetlag that night, but forced myself to go out until it was more of a respectable bed time in the hope that I would adjust to the time difference as soon as possible. I went to a place called Latitude round the corner from my hotel, which was actually a bar and grill, not a hooligan club like the name suggests. It was there, watching the Pittsburgh Steelers play Cincinnati, that I met Mike. He works for Standard Chartered in California and was in New York on business. We talked a lot about New York, London, American football and real football. A drink turned into several and my sensible bed time was well gone when we finally decided to leave the bar at half 12 and go our separate ways. Mike was a nice guy.